Sunday, January 22, 2012
Hon. Jain Maharajji, ( name and place hidden on purpose)
Namostu,
We had come for your blessings and guidance as our daughters marriage went in to a problem. We had spent a lot on marriage to as is a bad custom in Jains and marwaris.
It would be nice to motivate people who come at times of joy, events, openings, vaastu, B’day, new born etc to contribute to good project like yours but must refuse any contributions on person who is already under stress, expanses, has to spend on court, on advocate, on remarriage and morally broken.
Pl. find our humble contribution and charan sparsh.
Abhagi Jain beti ki maa ( suffering due to dowry seeking groom and family but calling them selves Jain)
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NB : Hope Jain sadhus will stop talking of small things like onion and warn against harassing brides, fraud in marriages, ignoring poor jains by ilite, neglecting old parents/parents in laws etc etc. These r greater sins then eating pyaj.You must also specify that if hurting for small reason is sinful then how much bad karma will be earned if there is a cheating, violence greed in a marriage.
I regret delay in sending payment inpite of several reminders.
With the guidence jain sadhu slaps a demand for donation
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u r right.
we indians are a bunch of hypocrites.
we brag in the whole world that we are the most spiritual nation of buddha,krishna,and mahavira.
yet we treat marriage as a business transaction and torture or kill brides for money.
Satyesh.Bhandari@ril.com ✆
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I am surprised to know that people are forced to donate to jain institutions (temples or monk’s facilities) irrespective of their economic condition and then listen to improvement of life through small sacrifices like leaving eating onions, not eating after sunset etc. These things are not very important in today’s culture and life style. Even the jain monks have changed their life style. They live in posh flats, use sanitary facilities, eat lavishly etc. etc. I really appreciate them for this change. However, also condemn for forceful donations for their projects. Yes there is no harm if someone is willingly giving.
They should take up projects to improve socio-economic conditions of all jains.
Regards
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ReplyDeleteNamaskar.
I do not wish the issue to be escalated but my mail is for the purpose of awareness that when greater sins r emerging how Sadhus r just remaining lakir ka fakir kind of thing. And when on one hand they have given up sansar then why they promote tirth khetra in thier own name and for the purpose seek contributions from even a families who r under distress.
However it was very satisfying to note that there r some good officers who act on distress call. But in this case incidentally ahaga baap does not want to escalate the issue. And even to rake up a issue for public awareness it needed good amt of courage.
Just for info I shall fwd u my story too but at this stage for academic interest / awareness.
They r planning divorce by consent as 498A , DV act cases take 4 to 5 yrs in court which will take away our chance of getting our daughter remarried. If courts were efficient and fast then letting off such a person or family scott free would be crime. But they hv no choice.
Thanks and Regards, Alok Tholiya,