except in one mail I have done mistake of my life recently by quoting name of wrong person at wrong place otherwise they r never a personal issue. If there r personal issue then mail will go to only those concerned .
I m not writing such mails as brother , husband, Jain. I m writing as now we call blogger or earlier a writer. There can be many
similarities when a story writer/ article writer writes. But is never made for individual attack. It is to change samaj rachana/ change in social norms.
similarities when a story writer/ article writer writes. But is never made for individual attack. It is to change samaj rachana/ change in social norms.
If it was meant for coxing you or any one from family then I had no reason to mail this to others , even press, even friends and business colleagues, TV channel etc. It would be very mean to take such writings personal.
And then always pluck from in between thorns rose, pick Lotus from mud etc etc . If one can not appreciate any comment, suggestion,view, observation from an entire mail then it needs lot of introspection.
Recently Amitabha Bachan blagged and said something about women getting TB and then not getting pregnant. People linked it to Aishvarya.
So one is free to link and free to take out meaning as per their own wishes but blogging will go on.And mind it, not even 10 % of total recipient read such articles.
May be those of u who r very busy u may have not read my most mails so ignorant abt my writings. Not heard me in meetings so do not know how I take up issues where no one dares to.Viz.
I have written in favour of increase in Salary of MP's, Inspite of being staunch Jain I have written against Jains forcing other cultures to follow teachings of Jainism, I have written against those Jain scrap merchants who buy stolen items, I have written about care/ neglect of Sr. citizens ,written on sexology ( which even leading sexologist take as taboo and dont touch) written against builders ( Ajay Jain called up saying you have taken big risk by writing against Wadhavan builder) I have repeatedly written against media which is sold out, brainless while everyone else try to lick their feet, I have written against judiciary ( which can send me to jail for such writings) and mailed to them , against police, BMC.Every where my views are revolutionary.Muslims have sent hate and threat mails and I just coolly delete, no one remembers abt family planning and I am coxing govt to reintroduce same. So I write differently, for social cause, general benefit but I am aware I am a small fly in this big world and will never be spared for my writings and thoughts when Mahavirji, Gandhji, Osho were misunderstood then who am I ??? A small fly in this big world! There was vighna/ upsarga on saints and munis then it will be on any one with newer thoughts specially a small man like me.
And abt me, I m the only person who dared to speak against Sahu Shreyans ji Jain ( of Times group) in meeting and abt managemnet of teen murti and Lo I was thrown out of prestigious committee of Teen murti. Others approached me to just withdraw my statement and I did not as they were nothing but truth. Same thing happened when Ashok Parekh was President of North Bombay Jaycees. Same thing happened when Santosh Shetty was President and I was Hon Sec of Lions club of Santacruz. I raised voice to trifercate lions district 323A. santosh Shetty opposed. And he called board meeting and removed me. Meeting and my removal was declared null and void by International Lions. Finally the then dist governor requested me to take over reins of Lions club of Vakola. So in Lions club of Santacruz it would have taken 4 yrs to be a Presi which I became immediately upon reinstatement but in different club.Next year again in dist. conference I raised the issue of trifercation of dist and it passed. Besides that year I was declared best president of Lions district 323 A by Governor. That huge trophy is still in my cabin.
I together with Nayan Shah ( Mayfair Housing ) won best parliamentarian award in mock parliament organised by Jaycees. So our particiaption and arguments was adjudged best but by none other then the then Vice Chancelor of Mumbai University T K Tope, Legal luminaire Y P Trivedi and Ex Sheriff of Mumbai Shri Nana Chudasama. So not all can appreciate , digest , understand what I say. It needs something to understand and accept path breaking appeals , views.
Cool mind without making it personal can understand. Not all. Not bias.
By the way many things if told by father, saint ( think of whom u adore), person who is more successful then becomes biblic message but if same / similar message comes from a mouth of ordinary person like me becomes offending.
So my request for those people is like u don't see all chaells, do not read word by word newspaper similarly unsubscribe or delete mails of writer whom you do not like instead of loosing cool. Incidentally I believe in democratic way of dialogue/ debate hence it does not bother me. Any one is welcome to write in any language befitting to self, and discard/ challenge my thoughts 100%.
Thanks and Regards,
Alok Tholiya (S.E.O.),
Alok Tholiya (S.E.O.),
