Saturday, October 13, 2012

threat mail to me......Alok

Dear All,

Pl. note that years back this group was made with following objective: Life is
made up of Mind, body, spirit( Soul) ,relationship and commerce.Any imbalance
disturbs the whole life.U can share,ask,provide,seek more and more info on
psychology,sexology,spiritualism,security,health and attractive business
announcements.U may also ask me or to all members in general on above issues.

If you dont like any of above subjects / matters then you are requested to
switch over to any other group of your choice. You can simply unsubscribe or can
write to me to remove your id.

If u think group is drifting away from topics given above ( and on group home
page) then too you can bring that to my knowledge.

All other topics / words / subject above are self explanetary escept two as
follows which I will try to dvelve upon here:

Sexology : Is a pure science and subject which must be incorporated in schools.
In sexology there are never a use of any cheap or dirty pictures/ language or
stories. Sexology is purely for the purpose of helping those who are legally
wedded and need help, guidence,need to remove myths and misconceptions.It is
also our motto to help them who are due to reasons of bad habits/ bad lifestyle
/ or very often due to reasons beyond their control are affected on front of
legitimate physical relationsship.

There are millions of dirty sites,books, videos,magazines availble before asking
but for some sick minds those are not offending but these scientic writings are.
May god help them. I have nothing to say except to advise that if menow group is
offending to them then do not spoil your blood pressure and just unsubscribe.

Security: Security is first and foremost for everyone. If security is not then
leave your house, locker, car, child, female member open for all. Do we ??? No!
We keep them securedly. Similarly we have to secure ourselves from thugs and
cheats, from traitors and terrorists, from cyber criminals and so on.

We love and respect all religion, people of all race, all lanuages and most of
them are nice and loveable. but as always happens in some groups / communities
we will find that there are more criminals, more terrorists more misguidede
youth. It is a endevour of group to warn about such nasty people. If such people
/ group happen from a particular community then it can not happen that we fail
to identify them. And if we identify them then some cheap minds will call us
communal. rather they have to rise to the occassion and call a sinister a
sinister and tell them that because of their misdeeds others are also earning
bad name. But many want wrong doers be not called wrong doers and specially when
there r wrong doers than they become / vow to become violent . issue threats of
killing etc..But what else can you expect from a blood thirsty person??? So
edhar kuva and udher khai. If u call a law breakers so a terrorists so then you
will be on their hitlist but even if you dont raise alarm the threat still
exisits and they will attack one day. So as per the theme of our group we try to
update on chances of lawbreakers taking over you. If you dont like such
warniongs then you are requested to leave the group and join any group of your

Now there was a very threatening mail today ( I have not circulated same). With
the language and tone it is from a group like Al kayda or so though it was from
a fictitious id and name. So you can't help it.Such people will one day take
over every communications chanell and control them and if they dont like anyone
then same will be eliminated. They are all watching. They are all around us. But
then ???? I can just say so what??? If allah has decided my life is to be taken
away by a terrorist then be it, you and me can't change but with that fear you
can't blind life game, you can't be fool like a pigeon who shuts eyes on seeing
a imminent threat to life and thinks all's well. You have to act and awaken
others too.

Politics: We do not represent any party. We dont need to. But some people make
some interesting / investigative writings/ jokes / aninmation and we are too
happy to circulate if that is truth and with language which is acceptable. It so
happens that always rulers get most of the bickring/ brickbats.So most mails
comes targetting them.If congress is ruling, if biggest scams are in their rule
then it is targetted nd rightly so. Will those party which have one or two MP's
will be targetted??

And if you think you want to rightly target some other party too then do make
such mails which are factual and interesting. I do not have preferance or bias
towardsidents not invite such mails. What comes as popular sentiments , comes.
It is better way to resent then what we saw recently in VT and Pune, what we see
some saffronists or similar groups take to at times.

And finally, I am an Indian and from a particular community. Like all other
people be Pakistani, Bangla deshi,palestanian and so on have right to worry
about their own people then I too have same for my people. And if one has such
bad language to condemen me for mails on MENOW then have they with equal force
spoken against incidents of violence on smallest opportunity done??? If my mails
are offending ( sexology related) then have those intellectuals equally
criticiesd the molestation of women police? But some people of great origin
raping and molesting is no crime ( see what happened when Iraq attacked Iran)
but scientific info is, to many mails with facts are communal but braking of
Budha murti at Afganistan, demolising Jain temple at kashmir, entering
Swaminarayan mandir with guns is community unity and friendship gesture!!!!!!!!

I requets all to make proportionate comments. First denounce very severe crime
then condemn these mails if at all you think they are condemnable. But no!
Dictatorial people can not see rasona nd like mad elephant will just crush
anthing coming on way.

Friday, October 12, 2012

R v Exploiting our family members.....


R v Exploiting our family members......?????????????....My all mails are for awreness for all and not for one individual....delete if busy..

My close relative was not well for months but symptoms were small. Everyone falls sick some day or other but if one falls sick repeatedly then it is a cause of concern. No one bothered to forcebly take him for full medica examination. Finally when his condition deteriorated after a year or so he was found to have cancer of third stage and left in few months. Immense personal   loss to all but what one fails to also count following :
  1. Several members spent their time of business, job, study on being with him for last six months but with nothing to achieve. Better they had spent one or two days with him in chec up and consultation.
  2. Few lacs were spent on treatment but with no benefits. If family members had spent few hundred then he could have been saved for few years.
  3. The guilt continues of neglecting him.
  4. He was earning Rs 15000/- per month. and expired at the age of 45 yrs. Supposing he lived to earn for another 25 years then he would have earned RS. 15000X12 monthsX 25 years + Bonus+ gifts+ increament+ interest on savings = ???? I m poor in calculations so pl. calculate for me.

  5.  But stll people neglected their near and dear ones when they are repaedly falling sick. Why??? Do they love her/Him??? Are they stingy and do not want to spend on mother / father/ wife/husband???? No it is a ignorance and falls busidom ( Nothing less then crookeddom/ and crackness) leading to dooms dom.
So, what my mails is trying ??? Trying to remove ignorance, change priority, have compassion, wake up in time and it is rightly said: A stitch in time saves nine.
Thanks and Regards,
Alok Tholiya,