R v Exploiting our family members.....

 

R v Exploiting our family members......?????????????....My all mails are for awreness for all and not for one individual....delete if busy..

 

My close relative was not well for months but symptoms were small. Everyone falls sick some day or other but if one falls sick repeatedly then it is a cause of concern. No one bothered to forcebly take him for full medica examination. Finally when his condition deteriorated after a year or so he was found to have cancer of third stage and left in few months. Immense personal   loss to all but what one fails to also count following :

1. Several members spent their time of business, job, study on being with him for last six months but with nothing to achieve. Better they had spent one or two days with him in chec up and consultation.
2. Few lacs were spent on treatment but with no benefits. If family members had spent few hundred then he could have been saved for few years.
3. The guilt continues of neglecting him.
4. He was earning Rs 15000/- per month. and expired at the age of 45 yrs. Supposing he lived to earn for another 25 years then he would have earned RS. 15000X12 monthsX 25 years + Bonus+ gifts+ increament+ interest on savings = ???? I m poor in calculations so pl. calculate for me.
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6.  But stll people neglected their near and dear ones when they are repaedly falling sick. Why??? Do they love her/Him??? Are they stingy and do not want to spend on mother / father/ wife/husband???? No it is a ignorance and falls busidom ( Nothing less then crookeddom/ and crackness) leading to dooms dom.

So, what my mails is trying ??? Trying to remove ignorance, change priority, have compassion, wake up in time and it is rightly said: A stitch in time saves nine.

 

Thanks and Regards,

Alok Tholiya,