urgent need for awakening in Khandelwal Jain Samaj.....other Jains too can follow the suit...

Need for Jain yuvak yuvti Association: We have organisations ( atleast in Mumbai) for seniors like Khandelwal Digambar Jain Samaj and we also have org. for married young couples like Digamabr Jain social Group. However there is a greater need for having a group of bachelors/ marriageable age youth of our samaj. They can be source of powerful energy for our social projects as well as for organising workforce intensive events. Besides this will increase greater relationship amongst youth of our community and will increase chance of marriage with in the community. 2. Building assets for future of our community: We have enough temples and more then that murtis. But we dont have our own hall, community center, and do not have enough accomodation for visiting patient guest student and others . It is easy for all groups to buy a flat in each locality . say group of Khandelwal Jains from Bandra to Andheri can easily unite and buy a flat of 100sq feet. Same can be managed by good volunteers. ( here Rich in samaj must understand that they have money but no time and thus they must unhesitatingly take help of others in samaj who have vice versa means time and inclination to work. Most of us have just sufficient place and if a patient comes to our city of treatment of longer period then we have to beg before others for temporary accommodation. There was a time when 1000sq feet in santacruz east was available for 10lacs and I had mooted the idea in our group of 8 couples that if each one of us introduce just Rs 2lacs then we can buy and furnish a place and use it forever for common/ community purpose but no one heeded. Today same place is costing Rs 1.5 cr in 12 yrs. Stay in hotel for 15 days to our guest will cost 50000/- or so etc etc.. or we have to be unkind and unhelpful to our own guest by refusing to attend to them or some time attend at the cost of inconvenience to all concerned. 3 . Mediation Center: We must have mediation center for our samaj. As times are changing fast we will have many family issues coming up. sending them to costly delaying courts is no use. Better we have our own system in place which can save the concerned from lot of troubles. The retired intellectuals can play the roll in this. Hope and pray for best ........... Thanks and Regards, Alok Tholiya,,

Part 2 of My Will

I am a very angry and boring person. I am fast growing oldy. When I am still older then will u ignore me and avoid seeing me and will not invite me to my grand childrens party or will not seek blessings for them???? Till I am hale and hearty I will invite all old family members or seek their blessings and request their presence even if their is some reason to ignore them but I shall not do so. Pl. do not praise me after my death, behind me. Pl. do not keep my photo in drawing room. Do not keep any Vidhan in my name or tereva. No need to print my photo in newspaper to invite them on third day of death/ baitak. If u want to collect ppl then collect while I am living and wanting to pass time , wanting to see others. I can't remain alone on chair/ bed whole day when old. I need your comapny. So have baithak, tereva and all other functions , vidhan, when I am alive and ailing Do not distribute any memento in my name. Do not kill cow and donate a pair of shoe. Let me have some good time with you. Chat with me. Laugh with me and even if I have bad nature enjoy me , those will be my last years. Do not write abt me ,your father / grand father/ grand uncle in remembrance of me on facebook, in poems etc rather call me ( when ailing and old) now when I need to talk to you. I know I am not going to be as attractive, as well dressed. as monied, as hygienic,as perfumed,as well mannered as your young monied friends are but still I am your father who lived life for you and your well being so how can you ignore me when old??? I have nothing to say about the most lavish party you throw, dinners you host, cocktails you serve but can't you call me once for a light khichdi (Rice preparation) dinner or even a cup of tea?? Remember if you set a right precedence then your grand children's too will host a dinner for you, throw a party for you but you are ignoring your old parents and so shall happen to u! Amen! U throw party for Lions, Rotary, rich neighbours, ministers , who,s who but who have no time and no need for same. I as lone person requier some attention and partying but who cares?? Many of U have risen in life because of something which we seniors sacrificed, taught, did for you and we do not get back even little gesture of thanks ( though you may carry same in your heart) . If u r truly indebted, is greatful, and not thankless then show it when you have an opportunity not when I am gone. You thank everyone for paltry deeds in vote of thanks but forget to thank your seniors who made your life to some extent. Now is a time or never ...... This is going to be part of my will that no rituals when I am dead as you never cared to give your time when I was alone, needing you, looking forward to hv a cup of tea with you. Thanks and Regards, Alok Tholiya, Sorry though it is a rough draft but sharing same in a hurry. When I hv time I will reframe and rearrange as lot of polishing is required to make this attractive.

Corrupt and inefficient Mahanagar Gas ltd and its way of working......mail going to 50000 recipients

Mahanagar Gas ltd. has dug up on our gate and around our gate trenches for last 6 days. No work is on. Sr. citizens and others find same very difficult to walk and traffic is also getting blocked. Their person says the pipes to be laid are out of stock. So without inventory why did they commence the work? Can traffic police, BMC , Govt of Maharashtra explain how these agencies are allowed to delay work and inconvinience the citizens ( consisting old, sick, blind, handicap, school going children, pregnant women etc ... Earlier: 3 months back they blocked our road for resurfacing and spent a lot of funds. Two months back they dug up for laying sewer ( gutter ) line. The work halted half way because their workers suddenly left for their village ( palghar / dahanu) as they had their local bodies elections( Panchayat etc ) . What commitment to contract taken. As per their original planned they were to dig and lay pipes on south side road of but since there is a illegal chinese food vendor so he manipulated and they diverted to north side.Then they were to make main hole ( which will keep over flowing ( as we have very talented corporators and engineers in BMC ) just on the middle of my main gate. After lot of persuasion they agreed to shift same 8'. They asked bribe for doing so and I threatened fast un to death. During course of digging they broke several water pipe lines of near by buildings and including mine. Municipal staff the Ravana's of today's time patronised by Saffronists took bribe from all to restore water supply. While digging for water pipe line restoration they damaged Reliance power supply cable. Municipal staff did nothing but just informed us. We chased with Reliance emergency helpline they took time but without any tantrums and without any demands repaired same. March beginning they finished the work and refilled the trenches and now MGL ( Mahanagar Gas Limited) has started redigging. And see photos of ancient technology they adopt and Uddhav Tahkery is happy with BMC the Aamchi Mumbai Mahanagarpalika. ( By the way I thank local corporators husband from Shiv Sena who saw that municipal water dept does not delay water restoration and also offered tanker facility. Thanks and Regards, Alok Tholiya,

TIPS FOR JAN SABHA FOR MUNICIPAL ELECTIONS IN MUMBAI

Dear All, Don't let any one rule for 5 yrs and squeeze ur blood. Bargain. take commitment in writing. ======================================================================= TIPS FOR JAN SABHA FOR MUNICIPAL ELECTIONS IN MUMBAI ======================================================================= karmayog ✆ info@karmayog.com 09:45 (8 hours ago) to me, karmayog On 12-Feb-2012, at 2:52 AM, Alok Tholiya wrote: If Jan sabha has to be made more popular then : 1. allow more participation by voters. In Jansabha in my area last night 3 organizers took 100% of time on behalf of voters. They achieved a lot in terms of getting commitment from candidates but lost grass root appeal, failed in creating mass base and we were all spectators. They will hv to ensure better participation. If they were to organise 2nd Jansabha the attendance will go down. ======================================================================= 2. Attendance was poor as citizens are not behaving as alert , responsible citizens. A proper hard hitting appeal / awareness has to be spread. Give ur 1 hour and we will give u 5 yrs of progress like slogans. ======================================================================= 3. Congress and BJP candidate did not attend and it is more likely that one of them will win. A pressure group must since morning stand outside their house with placard reminding abt the Jansabha and then if they ignore then again a small protest with due police permission must be made at their house for ignoring Jansabha. Unless their is backlash more candidates will undermine Jansabha and voters power. ======================================================================= 4. Very good video clippings were played showing comparison with foreign countries and my ward. And they must have added comparison of locality where VIP's , top bureaucrats, Local MP's stay as these areas r kept spic and span and other areas of Mumbai r neglected. ======================================================================= 5. Video records of house and other properties of likely to win candidates must be kept and in next 5 years how it changes must be also recorded once they win. ======================================================================= Thanks and Regards, Alok Tholiya, ======================================================================= DONT VOTE FOR SLOGANS,PARTY, RELIGION,LANGUAGE BUT ONLY AGAINST WRITTEN ASSURANCE OF WORK TO BE DONE BY CANDIDATE IF ELECTED.

Mr Gupta says I am a big pain.........when I make a complaint.....Alok ........my humble request to him‏

Mail to others too who can learn if they want. But ppl with Ravan genes ( Ahnkari) do not take it as a eye opener but as a chance to retaliate. Retaliate if u can but nither can harm me nor can stop karma theory from working. .........Alok Guptaji of MD India write: From: agupta@mdindia.com [mailto:agupta@mdindia.com] Sent: 08/February/2012 7:19 PM To: MDI Kenneth Paul Cc: MDI Praveen Yadav Subject: Fw: Hoax IRDA, Finance ministry and TPA MD india Pls handle this on an urgent basis. He is a big pain. Sent from my BlackBerry® on Reliance Mobile, India's No. 1 Network. Go for it! Alok comments and advises: If I am a pain then no one has right to cry on grievances??? I suffered once on Octroi naka. I wrote to DMC of BMC. And he wrote in similar fashion. I wrote him warning abt earning bad karmas. He did not listen. After few months news headlines were DMC raises grivance that his only daughter was raped by fridge mechanics and police is not doing what it shud. I had similar issues with TPH travels( I wont take ur time by narrating whole story but say it was grave consumer issue) and they slept over it. In few months I read they died in a plane crash at Aurangabad leaving behind what they made over curses. And incidentally in same flight my 12 yr old nephew was there and he survived with minor injuries. God has give u seniority to hv serve more then what other can but u r misusing that and god is making ur balance sheet. Be like mother who even wakes up in dead of night when child cries. Have compassion. Respond humanly if want to be live and die as human being. Or god has many other options to punish. Thanks and Regards, Alok Tholiya,

Hope P.M. will listen to such Asha and not merely Vijay Malaya and ilks

I am fwd a anonymous mail recd by me from a lady from Jalagaon......for kind info only.....

Sunday, January 22, 2012

Hon. Jain Maharajji, ( name and place hidden on purpose) 

Namostu,

We had come for your blessings and guidance as our daughters marriage went in to a problem. We had spent a lot on marriage to as is a bad custom in Jains and marwaris.

It would be nice to motivate people who come at times of joy, events, openings, vaastu, B’day, new born etc to contribute to good project like yours but must refuse any contributions on person who is already under stress, expanses, has to spend on court, on advocate, on remarriage and morally broken.

Pl. find our humble contribution and charan sparsh.

Abhagi Jain beti ki maa ( suffering due to dowry seeking groom and family but calling them selves Jain) 

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NB : Hope Jain sadhus will stop talking of small things like onion and warn against harassing brides, fraud in marriages, ignoring poor jains by ilite, neglecting old parents/parents in laws etc etc. These r greater sins then eating pyaj.You must also specify that if hurting for small reason is sinful then how much bad karma will be earned if there is a cheating, violence greed in a  marriage. 

I regret delay in sending payment inpite of several reminders.