Thursday, July 29, 2010

all papers give such info as spice and to promote sale of their paper but no one has demanded what I am doing today........Alok

 

Firstly it is a very big moral responsibility to share all vital facts before fixing a marriage with opposite party.
Secondly when we obtain fitness certificate before emplyuing a person why we dont do that before fixing a marriage?
thirdly when we want title clear certificate before buying a property then why we dont seek title clear before fixing a marriage and then aftre marriage all kinds of relations come to light.
 
Society and govt should form set of rules asking compulsorily to disclose in writing vital info from both side before marriage.Any info undisclosed and found later which affects severally marriage and families then the person and family hiding such info shud be severally punished.
 
Alok Tholiya....
 
 
 
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Nitasha Natu, TNN, Jul 29, 2010, 04.11am IST
MUMBAI: A 29-year-old beautician has filed a case of harassment against her husband for non-consummation of marriage, despite having lived together for two years. She has also accused her in-laws of humiliating her over dowry. Her husband, a manager with a bank at Churchgate, was arrested by the Vakola police last week while her in-laws are wanted.

"We have slapped charges of dowry harassment on the victim's in-laws and recorded a supplementary statement against her husband for non-consummation of marriage. We will now take the opinion of a public prosecutor on it," a police official said.

Rakhi and Sanjeev (names changed) had an arranged marriage in January 2008 and stayed in a joint family. Sanjeev's elder brother is attached to the RPF.

"Even after the marriage, Sanjeev used to sleep with his parents. Initially, he told me that he was preparing for MBA and did not want to get intimate with me, as he feared losing focus over his studies. I decided to give him some time. But he kept coming up with excuses as time passed," Rakhi told TOI.

"Sanjeev claimed he was looking for a separate house for us as we had no privacy at his parents' place. Six months later, when he couldn't find a new house, Sanjeev claimed he had bigger responsibilities such as securing his sisters' future (one of his sisters was going through a divorce while another is a widow)," Rakhi added. "In November 2008, my in-laws travelled to their hometown in Rae Bareilly. But Sanjeev refused to stay alone with me and sent me away to his brother's place. My brother-in-law tried to intervene, but in vain."

In May 2010, Rakhi slit her wrists in a bid to end her life. Her family then met her husband and in-laws, but it did not work out. Rakhi eventually lodged a police complaint after she was thrown out of her husband's house earlier this month. Sanjeev, who is out on bail, denied the charges.
 
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Tholiya Bhavan,10th Road,Santacruz East,
Mumbai 400055
M:9324225699
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    all papers give such info as spice and to promote sale of their paper but no one has demanded what I am doing today........Alok

    Firstly it is a very big moral responsibility to share all vital facts before fixing a marriage with opposite party.
    Secondly when we obtain fitness certificate before emplyuing a person why we dont do that before fixing a marriage?
    thirdly when we want title clear certificate before buying a property then why we dont seek title clear before fixing a marriage and then aftre marriage all kinds of relations come to light.
     
    Society and govt should form set of rules asking compulsorily to disclose in writing vital info from both side before marriage.Any info undisclosed and found later which affects severally marriage and families then the person and family hiding such info shud be severally punished.
     
    Alok Tholiya....
     
     
     
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    'Abstinence' costs hubby dear

    Nitasha Natu, TNN, Jul 29, 2010, 04.11am IST
    MUMBAI: A 29-year-old beautician has filed a case of harassment against her husband for non-consummation of marriage, despite having lived together for two years. She has also accused her in-laws of humiliating her over dowry. Her husband, a manager with a bank at Churchgate, was arrested by the Vakola police last week while her in-laws are wanted.

    "We have slapped charges of dowry harassment on the victim's in-laws and recorded a supplementary statement against her husband for non-consummation of marriage. We will now take the opinion of a public prosecutor on it," a police official said.

    Rakhi and Sanjeev (names changed) had an arranged marriage in January 2008 and stayed in a joint family. Sanjeev's elder brother is attached to the RPF.

    "Even after the marriage, Sanjeev used to sleep with his parents. Initially, he told me that he was preparing for MBA and did not want to get intimate with me, as he feared losing focus over his studies. I decided to give him some time. But he kept coming up with excuses as time passed," Rakhi told TOI.

    "Sanjeev claimed he was looking for a separate house for us as we had no privacy at his parents' place. Six months later, when he couldn't find a new house, Sanjeev claimed he had bigger responsibilities such as securing his sisters' future (one of his sisters was going through a divorce while another is a widow)," Rakhi added. "In November 2008, my in-laws travelled to their hometown in Rae Bareilly. But Sanjeev refused to stay alone with me and sent me away to his brother's place. My brother-in-law tried to intervene, but in vain."

    In May 2010, Rakhi slit her wrists in a bid to end her life. Her family then met her husband and in-laws, but it did not work out. Rakhi eventually lodged a police complaint after she was thrown out of her husband's house earlier this month. Sanjeev, who is out on bail, denied the charges.
     
    Thanks and Regards,
    Alok Tholiya (S.E.O.),Marigold Hall,
    Tholiya Bhavan,10th Road,Santacruz East,
    Mumbai 400055
    M:9324225699
    My favourite quote: Work hard to get what u like...or else....U ll b forced to like what u get!
    My links and blogs : ONLY AUTHENTIC FREE MATRIMONIALS WEBSITE FOR DIGAMBAR JAINS: www.digambarjains.com/
    For Issues of Sr. citizens : http://varishthanagrik.blogspot.com/
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    Wednesday, July 28, 2010

    how to eduacate marriageable age about risks and hazards of seeking divorce when stich (step)

    in time cud save 3 families from deep trauma.
     
    Dear All,
     
    Do u know of any site gives info on brief about grounds of seeking divorce?
    Under what lawswhat compansation can be asked?
    Can we have educative article for youth who should be aware that if they just marry for the sake of marrying / or due to force or due to society etc and are doing some thing wrong then they should desist from doing so as there r laws against such things:
    Like : If u r impotent
    U r hiding certain diseases / mental condition/ giving false committment
    if u r having extra marital relations
    if u r already married
    if u r criminal
    if u r habitual in addiction etc etc ..
    \
    If such marraigeable age people are prewarned that breaking of marriage is very costly, may be punishable may be u may loose ur job, u will loose reputation , will have to take leave several times from office then they will take wrong steps scaringly / sparingly.
     
    Recently just two days before marriage of one rakhi jain a girl called up parents of rakhi that she had long and intimate relation with their wud be son in lawbut he has no guts to say so to his parents and hence is getting married under pressure. The girls side came down to Mumbai and had a talk with parents ofboy and then both called of marriage in time ( though lot of maoney was spent but three families were saved. But many other cases after mnarriage the issues of adultery comes out and extra marital relationship continues and one day they break but there is a heavy emotional  / financial / reputaion loss to all parties. Will soemone come up with advisory on these issues ( Advocates,mental health proffessionals , womens orgs., social ministry  and newspapers can do lot in this direction.
     
    Thanks and Regards,
    Alok Tholiya (S.E.O.),Marigold Hall,
    Tholiya Bhavan,10th Road,Santacruz East,
    Mumbai 400055
    M:9324225699
    My favourite quote: Work hard to get what u like...or else....U ll b forced to like what u get!
    My links and blogs : ONLY AUTHENTIC FREE MATRIMONIALS WEBSITE FOR DIGAMBAR JAINS: www.digambarjains.com/
    For Issues of Sr. citizens : http://varishthanagrik.blogspot.com/
    Issues of Public interests : http://aloktholiya.blogspot.com/
    For harrassed litigansts : http://litigants.ning.com/
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    Monday, July 26, 2010

    My article on sex education......must read and send ur comments.....Alok

    IMP : Note with right diagonisis and treatment most sexual and relationships can be cured/ repaired/corrected. But the person should be ready and willing and cooperative. With psychologists one may have to have several sittings as they dont get path lab report for mental conditions. Have patience, faith and give cooperation.
     
    Dear All,
    ( Parents, Teacher, Doctors, divorce specialists, elders and adults to be married and married)
    Namaskar.
     
    Pl. note that I am the only non medico / non mental health professional accpted as  life member in Council of sex Education and parenthood International. It is a very august body of leading sexologist,psychologists, psychiatrists, counsellors, Urologists,andrologists etc..Dr Prakash Kothari, Dr M C Vatsa, Dr Rupin Shah, top of the line doctors are members here.
     
    I have guided and helped  many  married and about to be married purely as hon. social hobby/ responsibility.
     
    Normally there r various reasons of facing difficulties in marriage specially of just married like:
    1. Dowry/ dahej
    2. misbehaviour of someone during marriage ( like causing insult/ hurt)
    3. old relations which haunts
    4. expectations not meeting etc etc

    And  normally all focus is on above issues  where as there can be other  hidden undisclosed issues too like :

     

    5.Relationships can be in deep waters due to sexual difficulties but for years one / both keep suffering without coming out in open. So under lining factor can be something else of rift but actual fight will take place for other reasons. Let us in brief understand the problems:

     

    A: Organic / Physiological several reasons can affect a good performance ( long sickness ,addictions, long fatigue, low testosterone, high old  BP, high old diabetes, etc etc.

     

    B. Psychogenic: Past, myths ( like virginity : during talk with a disturbed friend who had just married I casually mentioned / explained that on first night bleeding may not take place due to several reason like girl was sportswoman, cyclist, may have inserted finger etc etc then hymen may have ruptured accidentally and he left his all misconceptions against his wife and became happy husband) , misconceptions, fear ( of pain, getting caught etc etc), hatred, commitment to other person, sever untreated depression  etc.

     

    If person has difficulty in arousal, erection or performance then one may avoid / not enjoy physical relations.And then can distance with partner on bogus grounds as he/ she can not come out with facts on such issues as there is a lot of stigma/ shyness/ fear  to discuss such issues.

     

    If person has very good experience with earlier partner and not so good with new one then also he may become dissatisfied and which can be seen in his / her behaviour.

     

    Ex may be longing for old partner or have  guilt or may be longing for good sex( experienced earlier as lady who is proffessional or already married or divorced  can be a better satisfying then a new shy inexperienced wife as she does not know all tantra).Unfortunately  some times it is ulta too where if a good virgin lady takes extra interest or shows some extra  knowledge then too husbands doubt her though it may be due her having some good knowledgeable friend, have read some good scientific books on tantra/ kam , attended some seminar ( I attended first such educative seminar some where around in 1976 ( I was bachlor and 21 yrs) organised by my very bold and dynamic college  princial Dr Kohli (N M college) where Dr Prakash Kothari demolised all myths and misconception in the minds of students and lecurers of college, and Bhaidas hall was over full) ( even after 30 yrs do u hear of such seminars for youth???). Education ministry, parents, teachers wake up. 

     

    A newly wed lady being new  may be in pain and has to use cream/ zylocaine besides husband has to love , respect, give comfort, give confidence ( for future security) so she becomes relexed/ wet. But idiot husband may think she is avoiding. Etc etc .ande may further drift. If u keep her under shaken confidence then how can she be aroused and parnering? So I feel doctors, elder women in house must  question about physical relationship  and guide new couple and better take some help from qualified proffessionals. Two best organisation which I know of in Mumbai r Council of Sex education and parenthood Int. and FPI ( Family Planning Association of India), KEM hospital  whose memebrs are competeant to do proper counseling/ treatment. However two important caution here :

    1. A lady should never allow profeessional to examine beyond a reasonable stage without the presence of a spouse/ another matured lady.

    2. You must cross check all info on net / books at FPI , ask lot of questions etc..and understand where u r being led.

    Proffessiionals / close senior relatives must further ask:  how long they had physical relations. How was their experience and satisfaction. How much they long for each other to be close, fiddling, foreplay etc etc. For man there is always fear of erection, its size ( which most often does not matter) premature ejaculation ( for both reasons psycho or physical disabilities), impotancy, etc etc. For both or one there may be reservation about conceiving ( now a days biggest hurdle is they r carrier minded , want to earn more for bigger better houes, we have spolilt the psyche of women by saying they need not be  maid after good education/ career). 

     

    If there is a lack of satisfaction due to any of above reasons and they ( due to nature of our society) are likely to not likely to discuss this/ understand this. And one who can not understand can never seek help and finally will keep drifting from each other and or keep suffering silently life time. Many a times cause of discord is physical relationship  issues but are most often not unattended till it is toooooooolate.

     

    I have several factual incidents to tell but one short story may be good enough:

     

    A lady neighbour of mine confided something in wife and my wife took his 10 year old son to a leading surgeon of leading hospital.They cameback without and treatment and help but good assurance. When I asked my wife why they had taken Ralph ( false name) to surgeon she avoided to reply.As time passed this boy became major but did not grow any facial hair, had chest bulging out , personality was not totally boyish but I cud not say anything to his parents ( this is nature of our society).He avoided to on picnic with other boys etc .

     

    By the grace of god his mother again took help of my wife for getting an appointment with this leading surgeon.When they were to leave for him that time I was told they r going to him.I cud not be that reluctant this time and asked my wife insistingly what is wrong with Ralph? She was again reluctant but on my insistance she said his mother says his private oragn is not growing.He is very shy. He does not go to male loo when others r thgere.

     

    I told her u dont have to go to general surgeon but have to go to a Urologist. Then I contacted Dr Rupin Shah. Dr rupin called me in the cabin after examining this boy and showed that his one testicle has not descended ( hence can not be even seen, felt means is not doing its job of producing testesterone very vital for manhood development) and hence  he has girlish voice, no beard, enlarged breast, and no development of penis . he showed me his micro penis.

    Then immediatley a surgery was planned and his testicles were put in right place. Then he was given shots of testesterone. Now Ralph is much OK. But Can he marry ?? Big question but his parents never asked me to accompany them to Dr Rupin. Dr Rupin though very nice person and knows me but as it is his proffessional ethics to not to disclose clients info in their absence has not told me nither I wud ask.

     

    Parennts of Ralph have prohibited me to share this info as he shud not face difficulties in getting married.

     

    By the way the earlier surgeon had assured parents of ralph that he is a child and evrything is alright and he will be OK once grows up. But Dr Rupin Shah said that this case should have been brought years back so lot cud be done at right time and saved the child from psychological trauma of years.

    So if leading surgons have ignorance about sexology then u can imagine the condition of lay person and just married.

     

    Wake wake wake up all. Save marriages. Save families. Have sex education.

    sex education is not all about increasing demands. increasing adultery , increasing dishonesty rather it for setting right the person suffering from such difficulties as explained above and increasing pleasure, increasing honesty and developing healthy society.

     

    I m sending this mail to 50K . Pl. fwd this to all ur contacts if u like it.

     

    ( sorry no time to chk spellings, grammer, or rephrasing). Rushing for my appointment to LIC office.

     

     
    Thanks and Regards,
    Alok Tholiya (S.E.O.),Marigold Hall,
    Tholiya Bhavan,10th Road,Santacruz East,
    Mumbai 400055
    M:9324225699
    My favourite quote: Work hard to get what u like...or else....U ll b forced to like what u get!
    My links and blogs : ONLY AUTHENTIC FREE MATRIMONIALS WEBSITE FOR DIGAMBAR JAINS: www.digambarjains.com/
    For Issues of Sr. citizens : http://varishthanagrik.blogspot.com/
    Issues of Public interests : http://aloktholiya.blogspot.com/
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    Friday, July 9, 2010

    Alok does PHD and shares with all for their benefit.....Pl. send ur views on this mail

    Let donkey ( CEO) work for you and carry ur load and yet give master what he would have never got without this donkey.....learning to share .......and reaching top ....and making  dreams reality.......share 5% mantra  ......( and get 95% otherwise unrealisable ) ..Alok

     

    What they dont teach in Havard:

    How to start branch after branch:

    How to start another unit/ franchise/ agents/ brokers :

    How to start encashing on idle / unutilised (normally ancestral property) strength/ resources/ property etc.:

    How to get the work done:

    How to make others dance to ur tune: ............one simple awnser ....SHARE  SHARE AND SHARE and ACT ACT & ACT IMMEDIATELY AS no one has seen tomorrow.

     

    To,

     

    My dear all,

    Namaskar.

     

    I m not competent to offer advise / or talk about modern corporate working (neither u have asked me to) but yet I want to share few things as seen by me:

     Negative side:

    You shud have lots of guts, influence, fearlessness ( of law and god) , be non approachable ( have PA's, VP's, whole time directors) , make govt officials in ministries , ministers etc ur shreholders and then:

    1.Get bank loan

    2.get huge pc of  land

    3. Get licences in ziffi ( a poor cobbler will take few yrs to get his licence )

    4. Get ( steal) water, power etc.

    5. Break rules, evade excise, sales tax, Income tax etc etc

     

    But finally bring co. to profit. Once there is a profit then fool investors, cheat brokers will ensure that ur scripts goes up and up.

     

    Then plan another venture where there is a profit of above 150%. Hire one CEO. Put him to  task. He fails then replace and he succeeds then go and put another industry.

     

    Keep adding on and just look in to balance sheet of each industry on quarterly basis and that's it . If  it is in red it is funeral of its CEO/ M.M., VP, and shareholders etc and if it brings profit then go ahead acquire another industry / project / ( govt is out to give all projects to handful of industrialists whether they have know how or experience or not) ( they in turn tie up with foreign companies by adding their cost ) ( if the project was given to directly to foreign good company then cost cud be 50% down). But then they may or may not be able to bribe as much as Indian cos wud by compromising with quality, delivery time, they will be able to revise quotation with the bribe several times and see the quality of project : santacruz east sky walk has several type of mismatching tile, they r slippery . so no consideration of beauty, grace has been kept and tiles r not anti skid so in monsoon, etc old, weak, women, children r slipping and falling. But on the other hand these industrialists r making house from 100 cr to 1600 crore ( Ambani). They r in IPL, Horse race , foot Ball and every other thing. See the houses of ministers and bureaucrats which r shining like gold, forget tiles every other thing is in good taste, aesthetic, interiors of class but public projects r in dirty design and looks. And then lights in subways don't work, their favourite voters from UP , Bihar keep spitting everywhere and no law is made to stop this infectious diseases spreading dirty habits.

     

    So to sum up : U can make money : rise high : if u can pocket ministers , officers and fool investors.

     

    The CEO : CEO thinks he is the boss but he is the slave of 24 hours of the company and is supposed to give results or be out.

     

    Share holders: Lot of money will be syphoned out, but balance sheet will be attractive and further is 4 word advise by sms or email brokers will give So called advise ( tip) and u will invest blindly ( out of lust) and buy manipulated share.And keep them in locker and sleep.

     

    Banks and land:   Not for poor, not for needy, but for those who can give rosy projects, make who's who partner, can bribe they will get loans at lower rate and land for peanut price.

     

    Licences: U will not get even death certificate for months without bribing and several visits, u will not get death body released form municipal morgue without money, u will not get to register FIR without hours of harassment and bribe , U will not get justice from Indian courts for decades, it took 6 months and 20000/- bribe for me to get one water connection of ½ '' but these industrialists get biggest NOC's , licences, permissions, connections  in seconds and on their table . How?? Their projects r operational in a year but a small man will run everywhere personally but no permission comes in hand for years . Why???

     

    Because the Indian Industry runs on different theory which is not taught in Havard.

     

    POSITIVE SIDE:

     

    But then Kutchi Gujrati samaj has been following the above appoint CEO principle very successfully ( though most of their business runs successfully on tax evasion like grocery, electrical, hardware, food, clothing, garment , utensils, crockery, stationary, xerox, etc etc  where they never issue any bill , never sell any thing with proper price printed, quality assured but they thrive).

    So coming back to their using appoint CEO feature: They have a very good network with in community. Community takes care of old, suffering, sick, students etc.. So their own people do not cheat the employer easily from own community. When some one is running a business of retail nature then normally they r not able to expand easily as they r stuck up on their own cash counter and controlling staff and stocks . But when a kutchi is running one  business successfully then he does not stop there. He picks up one of his good own community staff and makes him a working partner and starts another shop. And then next and then next. So I have seen Kutchis and to some extent godvalia marwaris and shettys in hotel industry grow faster then others as they open new out lets / branches depending on working partner which in new management we call CEO. Is in't it a fine and useful  idea. But u shud have control over the working partner / CEO who shud not deceive and achieve in time frame ur objectives. Best thing in present environment is have clear cut black and white  MOU/ target/ profit sharing/ goals so nothing is left to chances, misinterpretation, feud, confusion etc.

     

    Say there is a group of brothers with a family owned property. All may be busy in some other business activity and the precious piece of land may be lying neglected or may be gulped by land sharks or may one day go down the drain due to fight in 3rd / 4 rth generation on ancestral property with different objectives, aims , aspirations etc..

    In such a case all busy co-owners can appoint a CEO with clear but wide powers and fixed responsibilities so in set period a ambitious project comes up. IF it works out then same efforts can be continued by making it a regular joint business. Or they can part with the fruits of the unutilised piece of land on which there r many eyes set.

     

    But is is not easy for most. Not all want to share the profits and in turn loose what they can get out of untouched project themselves / opportunity lost is lost. But there r most people with the attitude that main karun bhi nahi and karne bhi nahi duuun ( nither I will do or I will let u / other co-owners do). Main kar bhi nahi sakta lekin mein karne bhi nahi dena chahta ( I know I have no time, no skill, no resources to do but yes I will also not let other person do). Such people wait for destiny and prey that apple should fall on  their lap/ jholi. Yes it may one day fall but if by chance u get a nap and others can take away that apple which was about to fall in ur jholi and for which u have been waiting for long. So the brilliant r those who employ CEO who risks his life and climbs the tree who plucks all the fruits, secures them , gives you as and when u want them and for all these services he expects a small share from ur orchid. It is up to u to decide whether u want to be without assured returns in ur own life time or u want to share the fruits and happiness of  success shared .


     
    Thanks and Regards,
    Alok Tholiya (S.E.O.),Marigold Hall,
    Tholiya Bhavan,10th Road,Santacruz East,
    Mumbai 400055
    M:9324225699
    My favourite quote: Work hard to get what u like...or else....U ll b forced to like what u get!
    My links and blogs : ONLY AUTHENTIC FREE MATRIMONIALS WEBSITE FOR DIGAMBAR JAINS: www.digambarjains.com/
    For Issues of Sr. citizens : http://varishthanagrik.blogspot.com/
    Issues of Public interests : http://aloktholiya.blogspot.com/
    For harrassed litigansts : http://litigants.ning.com/
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    Thursday, July 8, 2010

    Fw: Hearty thanks and hats off for opening first Vegetarian 5 star Hotel....Alok


     

    ----- Forwarded Message ----
    From: Ramesh Chheda <ramesh_chheda@yahoo.co.uk>
    To: Mr Alok Tholiya <tholiya@yahoo.com>
    Sent: Fri, 9 July, 2010 7:22:25 AM
    Subject: Re: Hearty thanks and hats off for opening first Vegetarian 5 star Hotel....Alok

    Alokji it is realy great work of him and great idea of u to get publish directory of jain places. I think in our society, the people who just talk of religion in fact they themselves dnnt follow the pricipales of jain religion as every one is having elephant's teeth. Even the leading news paper  times of india , where management is of jain any pain is taken to promote jain culture on the contrary i believe maximum of principles of jain religion are not followed in their organisation.
    with regards, 

    --- On Wed, 7/7/10, Mr Alok Tholiya <tholiya@yahoo.com> wrote:

    From: Mr Alok Tholiya <tholiya@yahoo.com>
    Subject: Hearty thanks and hats off for opening first Vegetarian 5 star Hotel....Alok
    To: "Alok Tholiya Main" <tholiya@yahoo.com>
    Date: Wednesday, 7 July, 2010, 5:38 PM

    The CEO.,
    Country Inns and Suites ,
    East Delhi,
     
    To, Jain orgs and printers and activists,
     
    I have been getting mails and sms for making our religious place only for veg. or declaring our festivals free of slaughter etc etc..
     
    Why we should meddle with belief and culture of others. When we jains flock Non veg. hotels, buy cakes from non veg bakeries, buy sweets with silver foil made on animal skin, etc etc.
    And many of us r consuming alcohol, using bad words etc etc.
     
    We Jains should not pressurise others for their  acts as per their cusoms but try to follow ours more deligently ( I m not saying to even issue whip lest talibani style fatva). We can only spread awareness , educate and set an example.
     
    To this end Shri Salek Chandji Jain , kagzi has made very revolutionary , futuristic and bold move by starting first ever vegetarian 5 star hotel in Delhi. My salute to him. Hope many more such hotels , eateries, and fast food chains will come up world wide to give vegetarians easy and tasty food of all continents but vegetarian.
     
    I would request all vegetarians to make useof this hotel when in Delhi. ( By the way I do not know at all Mr Salek or any one from his business.
     
    It will be appro[prite to ask Jain organisations and publishers to come out with dirctory of pure Veg. venues, hotels, caterers, food parlours, fast food joints, Pizza hiouses etc etc so we and our children can lay hands easily on such places and desist from going to non veg places.
     
     
    Thanks and Regards,
    Alok Tholiya (S.E.O.),Marigold Hall,
    Tholiya Bhavan,10th Road,Santacruz East,
    Mumbai 400055
    M:9324225699
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    Tuesday, July 6, 2010

    not eating properly, with regular intervals, not eating healthy food can have several bad effects on mind and body ...read on....Alok

    Not eating properly can affect ur Mind and body which can affect ur:
     
    nature: one can become irritable, depressed, forgetful, etc
     
    eating less or unhealthy can cause several vitamin and minerals defeciencies: immunity will go down, one will catch infections faster, several health complications can develop including weak eye, poor stamina, low libido, poor performance, sexual defeciencies, fatigue, etc etc
     
    From hair to heart , liver, kidney , brain everything needs poshtik Tatva ( healthy food) . It is time to wake up before it is too late.
     
    Like all other mental conditions even Those suffering from Anorexia_nervosa  will never know and admit that they are suffering with any such condition ( of eating less/ not feeling like eating/ ). So best is listen to others. Next best is go to mental health expert for counseling with all pathological reports like vitamins, minerals , testosterone test results etc.
     
     
    Problems

    The most immediate problem with underweight is that it might be secondary to, and/or symptomatic of, an underlying disease. Unexplained weight loss requires professional medical diagnosis.

    Underweight can also be a primary causative condition. Severely underweight individuals may have poor physical stamina and a weak immune system, leaving them open to infection. According to Robert E. Black of the Johns Hopkins School of Public Health, "Underweight status ... and micronutrient deficiencies also cause decreases in immune and non-immune host defenses, and should be classified as underlying causes of death if followed by infectious diseases that are the terminal associated causes."[2] People who are malnutrative underweight raise special concerns, as not only gross caloric intake may be inadequate, but also intake and absorption of other vital nutrients, especially essential amino acids and micronutrients such as vitamins and minerals.

    In women, being grossly underweight can result in amenorrhea (absence of menstruation) and possible complications during pregnancy. It can also cause anemia and hair loss.

    Underweight is an established[3] risk factor for osteoporosis, even for young people. This is a particular insidious consequence, because the affected persons do not notice the danger, they can feel fit and may be brilliant for example in endurance sports.[4][5] After the occurrence of first spontaneous fractures the damage is often already irreversible.

     

     

    http://www.pbs.org/wgbh/nova/thin/needs.html


     http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anorexia_nervosa

     

    http://in.mg50.mail.yahoo.com/dc/launch?.gx=1&.rand=6nreeh7fa4qe3

     

    Possible Signs of Anorexia Nervosa
    Russell's sign is the scarring that occurs on the dorsum of the hand, primarily the knuckles due to sticking fingers down throat to induce vomiting. The scars occur due to the skins repeated contact with the teeth.
    Russell's sign scarring on knuckles due to sticking fingers down throat to force vomiting[14]
    Chilblains are ulcers that affect such areas as the toes, they may occur when a predisposed individual is exposed to cold and humidity
    Chilblains, also known as Perniosis.
    Possible cutaneous complication of anorexia nervosa.[15]

     

    Possible Signs of Anorexia Nervosa
    Russell's sign is the scarring that occurs on the dorsum of the hand, primarily the knuckles due to sticking fingers down throat to induce vomiting. The scars occur due to the skins repeated contact with the teeth.
    Russell's sign scarring on knuckles due to sticking fingers down throat to force vomiting[14]
    Chilblains are ulcers that affect such areas as the toes, they may occur when a predisposed individual is exposed to cold and humidity
    Chilblains, also known as Perniosis.
    Possible cutaneous complication of anorexia nervosa.[15]

    http://www.nationaleatingdisorders.org/uploads/file/information-resources/NEDA-TKP-A01-Glossary-Parent.pdf

     

    Possible Signs of Anorexia Nervosa
    Russell's sign is the scarring that occurs on the dorsum of the hand, primarily the knuckles due to sticking fingers down throat to induce vomiting. The scars occur due to the skins repeated contact with the teeth.
    Russell's sign scarring on knuckles due to sticking fingers down throat to force vomiting[14]
    Chilblains are ulcers that affect such areas as the toes, they may occur when a predisposed individual is exposed to cold and humidity
    Chilblains, also known as Perniosis.
    Possible cutaneous complication of anorexia nervosa.[15]

    Thanks and Regards,
    Alok Tholiya (S.E.O.),Marigold Hall,
    Tholiya Bhavan,10th Road,Santacruz East,
    Mumbai 400055
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